What "fulfillment" actually means at this scale
At the $5M+ DTC band, "fulfillment" is a stack of decisions, not a single vendor choice. Carrier mix (UPS / FedEx / USPS / regional / DHL eCommerce) sets your floor cost. 3PL or in-house fulfillment sets your operating model.
An order management system (OMS) — sometimes Shopify itself, sometimes a dedicated platform — sets your routing logic. A returns platform (Loop, Happy Returns, Returnly, ReturnGO) sets your reverse-logistics economics.
A shipping app (ShipStation, Easyship, ShipHero) sets your label-printing workflow. Each layer has different vendors, and the wrong choice at any layer creates margin leaks that hide in carrier audits months later.